Escrito por Dave, 01.04.2025 at 23:41
The only mistake I've made with atWar was actually caring TOO much about the community and what other people think. It caused me to waste too much time talking to people trying to make them see my position. Nobody cares. Waffel is the perfect example. I spent HOURS talking with that dude, listening to his concerns, telling him mine, and trying to reach understanding. Then he goes off and posts things which only show me that he absolutely did not understand anything I said.
The lesson I've learned: people are gonna bitch no matter what. Nothing I say will change their minds. Just do what you need to do for the best interests of the game and ignore the noise.
You know what Dave, even after you've wiped off my account from this game and along with me many other accounts of players that spoke up, I ALWAYS remained respectful towards you and reached out to you (like many times before). I remained hopeful that we would be able to work things out and fix all of the mess that was created, if we were able to just speak to each other, for the sake of the game. Many of the players that got banned, like Mauzer, Jugers, osix, Laochra, and more, made fun of me at the time for being so naive and willing to talk with a stubborn guy like you, but I did anyways.
Up until now in my recent postings, I have refrained from mentioning certain people their names and actions and pointing out the things they did, but reading your post, and seeing how you're still trying to claim to be the reasonable guy in all of this and actually pretending to be the victim many years later, really leaves me speachless. So I guess from now on i'll be even more specific on certain matters, because apparently its YOU that did not understand any of the things I've posted on both my main as this account, when many people apparently did (just look at the comments above me).
You claim that you've spend hours talking with me, listening to my concerns, and trying to understand all of it, but that is just a blatant lie. After you've banned me I reached out to you within days (maybe even hours), trying to find out why on earth you decided to ban and delete the account of not just mine, but a lot of other players as well, and most importantly for something that you've allowed all of us to do: to freely share our mind, our opinons and discuss the matter I brought forth in those threads. I reached out to you on discord (after I had already reached out to you in game multiple times, prior to the ban), and wanted to talk to you about it, but it was you that wasn't available to talk, and we actually never talked ever again:
Screenshots of our (last and only conversation on discord):
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https://prnt.sc/ONEkPTaDcsNA
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https://prnt.sc/VdSyBrUM6bmy
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https://prnt.sc/9-Zwm1F6DyHc
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Before I go into further details of what happend in november 2021, I would like to point out what started all of this. Back in early 2021, somewhere in march, I got banned by Sid for calling him incompetent, something he had been called before by numerous of other players and mods (and even back then a lot of people and still to this day, agreed upon). After my ban a lot of people spoke out against it, claiming it to be harsh, saying that it was petty to ban someone for something like that, that he overstepped, that the game's regime started to get similarities with Chinese and Russian regimes (those same regimes you seemed to be against, but somehow enforce in your own game, which is kind of ironic). Sid was doing this not only to me, but to some other people as well, like Trystane, and people that also criticized him for certain actions and expressions about the whole Laochra-situation. You however, instead of taking the control over your own game and your staffteam, you created a precedent by allowing these kind of bans taking place, resulting in admins, mostly mods, and supporters abusing the powers they got and eliminating players left and right they had beef with in the past. Players like Kaska and Croat, players very well known for their own absurd amount of toxic behaviours, banning/muting people they disliked and had problems with, with unjustified reasonings and chatlogs from many years ago as reason. Not only did you allow this to happen, you even supported and defended it, making your close friends within the staffteam basically unvulnerable without any accountability whatsoever. This went on for months, and a lot of threads about the issue were brought up, but all got silenced, locked, deleted, people got muted in game, people got banned over stuff. This led to people leaving the game as well, because the game was starting to become a very dictator-ish run game, where not complying with the status-quo was almost reason enough to get banned/muted/silenced for.
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Before you decided to ban all of us and delete all our accounts, you and I did however talk in the game but not in a way you're describing here. We talked about a thread that I created at the start of november 2021 where I stated my concerns about the state of the game and certain regimes within the game and its staffteam as I mentioned before. The thread in question got locked/archived/deleted straight away by Sid (who else, of course?) when he noticed it, but at the time plenty of people had already upvoted, supported, and started the discussion. We talked about the things that had happened over the past months prior to that thread, and the state of the game and the problems it faced with the staffteam. I asked you to allow open dialogue, and at first you did. You allowed us to speak our mind and even unlocked/unarchived/undeleted the thread in question, you allowed people to share their displeasures and after a couple of days, when more people started to support it and the sentiment within the community started to grow, Sid however decided to lock/archive/delete the thread once again, claiming that the thread served it's purpose and dictated, once again, the subject and discussion of the matter. That's when the second thread got opened by Jugers, basically stating that we wanted to continue discussing the matter, as it wasn't done yet, it had barely even begun. You, once again, allowed open dialogue, and even more people started commenting on it, even your own moderators and supporters, most of it as response to the other thread being locked/deleted/archived, which only made more people within the community very angry. The thread received support from all over the community, allowed everyone to express their opinions and concerns without being afraid of getting banned/muted/lynched by members of the staffteam, as that's what was happening for months prior to the threads. I think as the days went by, Kaska, Croat and Sid all were mentioned by a lot of players, which eventually resulted in I think Kaska resigning under pressure and shortly after that Croat was considering to resign as well. Before Croat could do that, it got leaked that Croat was resigning, and it resulted in a very manic mentalbreakdown in both the forums and discords/external chats, which eventually led to the ''Thank you Croat'' video/comments, and you banning/deleting all of the players, because you got fed up with it.
Only a couple days after our conversation on discord (see screenshots above), I received screenshots of chats of you and Sid (and others) talking shit about all of us (the banned players), how we instigated this 'rebellion', how you never intend to let any of us back on to the game because of the public outcry it caused, how much trouble we caused for exposing the overly moderating that happened at the time, how much better the game would be with us out of the picture, because according to you (Sid, mostly), we were all the root problem of everything that was wrong with this game, and we were just a bunch of useless players to you whom had no constructive contribution to this game. You and Sid decided to delete all the threads, every comment, every topic, mute every player that even as much mentioned any of this, hoping that it would fade away like it never happened. However, that did not happen, quite the opposite happened.
Escrito por Dave, 01.04.2025 at 23:41
If I had it to do over, I would have banned people faster and not wasted so much time explaining why. Activity was already declining before, and continued declining after.... banning a few toxic people who needed to go didn't do anything to change the course the game was already on. In other words: no great loss. The upshot: somewhat less moderation issues to have to deal with. The trade-off was and is worth it.
The banning and deleting of accounts led to a lot of important clans disbanding, leading to a lesser active competitive scene overall, which resulted in the current activity in this game we have right now. The fact that you even say something like this, really tells me how little you understand about this game and the core of this community (what's left of it anyways). Over the years you've claimed that the competitive community was never an important one anyways, you claimed that it was just a loud minority dictating things and that banning us would have no effect what so ever. Yet, even after all these years, with all the lousy updates, endless bugs, bad mechanics and strategies, lack of advertising, the restrictions that are put on new players/guest accounts, numerous of exploits from many players (even those within the staffteam themselves, and who seem to have influential positions within your staffteam, like head of supporters), most of the current active remaining players are mostly those from the competitive scene, which really should tell you something about the importance of a competitive community within a game. The fact that you mention the less moderation issues as a pro for banning people and that it was worth the trade-off, really shows me that you're either in a lot of denial of the consequences of your own actions or that you're willing to sacrifice a game, a community that's been thriving for over 15 years, and your own investments for personal beliefs and issues you or your friends may have or had with certain players that got banned. It looks to me that you've actually selfdestructed this game solely to please the complaints of some of the players that were/are close friends of you at the time, such as Croat, Kaska and Sid. All 3 of them were heavily criticised at the time by most of the players within the community as the biggest sources of problems with the staffteam and the community and a lot of people demanded resignation/demotion of all 3 of the players. You however was against all of that. And the thing that shocks me the most, is that you're even willing to promote one of them back into your staff/moderation team, after all the chaos and shit all 3 of them were involved with. And now two of those players are nowhere to be found after the mess they've created within the game, and yet here you are, still as stubborn as always claiming that you did nothing wrong and it's all our fault.
Not to mention that the players that you're refering to as ''no great loss'', were players that have contributed a shit ton on this game, into making this game a better place, some of them were well respected moderators and/or supporters within the game and played and supported this game for over 10 years, and yet you just toss them out like it's nothing. That says more about you as an owner and the way you look at your playerbase.
Escrito por Dave, 01.04.2025 at 23:41
It does irritate me however when people say I "don't care" about atWar. It's easy for people to sit back and make accusations when they don't have the real life responsibilities to deal with like I do. I know better than to expect any sympathy or understanding from this community. But I do keep atWar running and deal with the emergencies when things break, no matter how busy I am with other things. Is that the act of someone who doesn't care?
I think it's really sad that even after all these years, with the declining and unhappy playerbase, the same threads and topics every year about the state of the game, the lack of players, lack of upgrades, lack of basically everything, unbanning people, it looks to me that we, the players that love(d) this game, apparently care more about the game than you do Dave. Because instead of realizing and accepting that the way you've been going for the last couple of years has been nothing but destructive for both the game and its community, you're actually saying that you regret not banning people faster and enforcing more strictness, which eventually led to the current state of this game.
Like I explained in my first post on this account, the whole reason this game lasted for so many years was not just because of the niche gameplay and mechanics, but it was because of a community-feel like atmosphere, that made you log in day after day, spending hours on here, something that you experienced as well in your early months in 2018/2019. Unfortunately you let bad influence cloud your judgement and forced certain things upon the community.
I really think you, as an entrepeneur/business man, should be able to know how to deal with constructive criticism and other opinions, instead of banning/deleting/muting anything you don't like, and tearing up a whole community because you or your friends didn't feel like fitting in.
It saddens me to see that after all this time being banned for no good reason and some of us still took their time to express their concerns and opinions about certains things within the game and its administration, because we actually care about this game and always have, you still seem to be this stubborn person that doesn't see anything wrong in his own actions and decisions and just keeps on blaming others for the current state of affairs. I think at some point you have to accept that maybe the game is better of with a new owner, or at least someone that understands, or tries to understand the way this game and it's community works.
Waffel